The woman thought she was taking a bicycle class. What she didn't understand was she was in a spin class, and from what it sounds like, a pretty advanced one. Now I am talking about a woman approaching 60 who had not done a lot, if any exercise in her life, tackling a spin class.
I asked her why she took it. She explained that she thought everyone would just ride for an hour to music. She said she wanted to quit, but she was determined to finish the class, which she did. Now though, she didn't even know if she really wanted to go back to the gym.
I told her that the class just wasn't for her....yet. I suggested she go back to the gym and tackle some things she could do. I talked about the treadmill, the Elliptical, the stationery bike. She liked the idea of those. I also told her not to be afraid and ask a trainer how to use any of the machines. They are there to help.
She told me she felt silly in the class, like somehow she just did not belong. At this point I told her that she shouldn't feel silly, she just did not create an opportunity to succeed. She had never taken a class, didn't let the instructor know she was a newbie, and got depressed from it. It's experiences like that, that keep us from going to the gym. I advised to take baby steps and find the things she could do, and master those.
She smiled, and told me I was right. I could even see her straighten up a bit. She asked if she could come back for more advise - anytime.
I thought about her on my run yesterday. I did a 1 hour 5 mile run. When I felt like stopping the run, I thought about how that would not be an opportunity to succeed, so I pushed ahead. In fact my last mile I clocked 10:48 -phew!
Charlie