If It Isn't Fun...Don't Do It

This is the time of year I work with a lot of kids running in track. I ask them the same thing, "Do you enjoy running track?" Most of the time the kids say yes. Now and then I get the kid though who is clearly living their parents dream. I know this, because the parent is usually the one answering all my questions, and the kid is sitting there, not really wanting to even look at shoes.

I tell them running and track should be fun. I want kids to love running. I understand though that not every kid dreams of winning the 100m, or setting a world record. I know there are kids just happy to be in a sport and being part of a team. Woe to the kid though with the sports booster parent who is pushing their kid.

I spoke with a parent today who was telling me he and his son are working on lowering his(the kid's) mile to a sub 7:00 mile. This boy was 12. The entire time I worked with him, he never smiled. His dad was beaming and boasting about the 5ks and how fast the boy is.

I don't like it when parents push their kids in sports. It should be something kids enjoy. If they aren't enjoying it, they need to find something they do enjoy.

I think about this in my running. These days I am enjoying running. It doesn't seem like a chore. It's getting back to a place I want to run, and just be out there. Yesterday's 3.4 mile run was nice and easy. I felt good, happy to be outside.

I got a new pair of shoes yesterday, so I am looking forward to trying them tomorrow.

Charlie